2.2 Destiny’s Story

Chapter 2.2 takes a break from the Elise Family Line/Cassie Chapter to focus on Destiny Blanc and give Destiny’s backstory. Cassie’s story will pick back up in Chapter 2.3.

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Destiny Blanc was beautiful and smart. Really smart. She could have easily risen to the top of any career she chose. Instead, she played a few gigs with her guitar each week and did other odd jobs here and there so she could spend the majority of her time partying with her friends.

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Destiny felt that experiences were what mattered in life, and she wanted to live life to the fullest and on her own terms.

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That’s why she lived in the world’s crappiest apartment and spent most of her money on club clothes and entrance fees. She she was crafty about buying her clothes on sale and knowing when and where there was a happy hour or ladies night. Fast approaching 30, she knew her looks and her low-rent, high-living lifestyle couldn’t last forever.

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That’s where Diego Lobo came into the picture. He saw her dancing by herself in the Stargazer Lounge and approached her. Why wouldn’t he? She was stunning, after all, and he had a reputation as someone with an eye for beautiful people who went after what he wanted.

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They hit it off and ended up club hopping together that same night. They both liked many of the same things, and they both liked to have a good time. And they were crazy attracted to each other.

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Despite their instant and powerful physical connection, they didn’t end up going home together that night. Destiny said she wasn’t ready. They went on a few more dates after that, including one to the museum during the day…

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…where things got steamy…

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…and the Romance Festival that night…

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…when the timing was finally right.

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They continued seeing each other, and she even invited him back to her apartment, which was a place that she rarely let anyone see.

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Within two weeks of them sleeping together, she became pregnant. She told him she wanted to keep the baby.

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He said he wouldn’t have it any other way and that he would make sure she and the child were taken care of. He confessed to her that he always thought it would be cool to be a father but that it was something he never thought would happen for him.

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A few months later, Diego took Destiny to a 2-bedroom apartment he had purchased. He told her that she could live their while she raised their child and that he would pay the rent plus money to furnish and decorate, as well as give her a monthly check for expenses so she wouldn’t have to work.

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He seemed nervous about telling her. Destiny guessed that he probably thought she expected a proposal. She did not. She had always wanted to be a mom, but she had never wanted to settle down. “The apartment is perfect,” she said, “I love it!” Diego looked relieved.

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They went upstairs and looked at the rest of the place, including the room they decided would be the nursery. It was so exciting to envision a crib in there!

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She immediately started decorating so it would all be done by the time the baby got there. The first thing she did was dedicate half of her living room to a bar and a dance floor. Diego seemed a little concerned but went along with it. You can take the girl out of the party, but you can’t take the party out of the girl!

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Even though Destiny had hired an interior decorator to help her, Diego wanted to be involved with setting up the nursery. He helped hang pictures and put the crib together. He also brought over some toys he had picked out.

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Destiny didn’t bring anything over from her old apartment, not one single thing. She even bought new makeup and perfume.

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As she lay in bed and looked at the spectacular view, she thought to herself that she had gotten everything she ever wanted–to be a mom, to not have to worry about money or rent, and to remain a free spirit. Life was good, better than good; life was great. To anyone watching, it would seem like she was the luckiest girl in the world.

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Destiny and Diego had a son and named him Alarick Chance Lobo-Blanc. Diego told Destiny that he wanted to keep his paternity a secret. There were a couple of reasons for this. 1) He didn’t want people judging him or asking him personal questions, and 2) it was possible people could want to harm or kidnap the baby in order to get money, given Diego’s wealth. Alarick was much safer with no-one knowing who he really was. Destiny agreed.

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Destiny had been prepared for the fact that Diego might be a distant father who merely wrote the checks, but Diego was very involved in his son’s life.

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Even though he and Destiny ended their romance shortly after Alarick was born, Diego made regular visits. He played with Alarick, read to him, and tucked him in on many nights. He would mostly just visit the apartment and not go out in public with Alarick because of the need for secrecy. This arrangement worked out well.

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Diego didn’t just do the fun stuff, either. He helped with baths, diapers, and all of the other things that come with having a baby. He was a dedicated father.

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And Destiny was a dedicated mother. This doesn’t mean she gave up her party lifestyle. No way. But she did scale it back a little, and she always put her son above all else.

She had chosen well. You see, she knew Diego would be in the Stargazer Lounge that night they first met because she’d researched him. Actually, she had researched the top 20 richest men in the city–their finances, their habits, their traits, their likes and dislikes, their views toward family and responsibility, etc. And Diego scored high; he was at the top of the list. Like I said, Destiny is smart. When she said she wasn’t ready on that first date, she meant it literally. She wasn’t ovulating.

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She did genuinely like Diego and she did genuinely want to be a mom, but she had also set Diego up. She thought he probably suspected; any man in his position of wealth and power would have their suspicions. But he never said anything or even hinted at it. He was too much of a gentleman. Destiny even gave Alarick the middle name “Chance” because she had taken a chance on Diego. It paid off, and she felt no guilt about manipulating events in her favor because she told herself that Diego was happier now than before. She never told a soul about her plan and she never would. Nobody could tell her secret if nobody knew her secret.

When Alarick got a little older, Diego would take him and Destiny on vacations to far away places where they wouldn’t be recognized. Destiny was glad he found a way to make memories with his son other than just being stuck in the apartment, and she was  super glad to get to travel, as well.

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Destiny thought she would never want to be dedicated to just one man for the rest of her life, but that all changed when she met a handsome policeman named Beau Lane. She met him through her parenting group, and they became good friends before things ever got romantic. Beau was married when they first met, but he later got divorced, and he and Destiny started seeing each other shortly after that.

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And shortly after that, Destiny became pregnant again. This time, not on purpose. This was a whole new experience for her, and she didn’t like not being in control. She was freaking out inside. What would Diego think? Would he withdraw his financial support? What would Beau think? Would he be happy or upset? What did she think? She wasn’t even sure. Yes, she had wanted to be a mother, but she hadn’t bargained on it happening twice.

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In the end, everything turned out fine. Beau was happy when he heard the news that she was pregnant. He even proposed; but Destiny refused. She had never wanted to get married. They had a little girl named Joslyn Reece Lane-Blanc, the apple of Beau’s eye. Alarick continued his support and enjoyed a friendly relationship with Beau, and of course, Beau pitched in money for Joslyn’s care. Even though they didn’t marry or live together, Destiny stayed in an exclusive relationship with Beau. She felt she had found her soulmate.

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Before Joslyn was born, Destiny had Beau move the bar up and add a wall at the back of her living room, creating a tiny third bedroom.

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Even though it was small, it was definitely a princess room, and Joslyn was definitely the princess of the family. It’s good to be a girl AND the youngest.

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Joslyn’s two half-brothers, Diego’s son Alarick and  Beau’s son Cole, also treated her like a princess and always looked out for her.

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When Alarick got older, he started to intern at his father’s company. This gave Diego the opportunity to go out to lunch or other public places with his son, as it would just seem like Diego was mentoring him. They kept the fact that Diego was Alarick’s father a secret until just before Alarick graduated from high school. Their friends were shocked when they told them, to say the least! Of course, Beau and Cole knew, but they kept the secret, as well.

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When Alarick turned 18, Diego gifted Destiny with the deed to the apartment but also cut off her monthly checks, instead giving money directly to Alarick for whatever he needed to buy. Destiny had started investing part of her funds from Diego early on, so she had enough saved up to live comfortably for the rest of her days. Think what you want about Destiny–that she’s a genius free spirit or a manipulative stalker. Maybe she’s a little bit of both. Regardless, she continued to be  a devoted mother as well as a girl devoted to partying and living large, well into her later years.

 

 

2.1 Cassie’s Teenage Life

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My sis (Ellie) & me (Cassie) in our old apartment.

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This is where we live now. Mom, dad, and Nutmeg (a rescue).

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Cutest. Dog. Evah.

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We have our own rooms now. FINALLY.

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My makeup table.

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Animal poster, animal curtains, animal statues. Can you tell I like animals??

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And my favorite part of my room—sloth face!

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Ellie’s room. Much messier than mine. I’m just saying.

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Excuse the dog butt. She wouldn’t move.

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First day back at school, junior year. Eating healthy food but thinking about hamburgers and french fries.

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My cousin, Tariq, showing off pics of his new guitar.

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We know everybody except that girl up front. She must be new. She looks shy.

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New girl is Billie Jang. You can’t tell from this pic, but she’s pretty short. She’s adorable. We’re going to introduce her around, starting with Kye and Cole.

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Invited Billie to hang out with us after class. Finally got my hamburger!!!

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Giving Nutmeg a bath for her vet appointment later today.

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Noooooooooooooooo!!!!! LOLs.

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At the vet. No puppies for you, Nutmeg. Because we’re responsible pet owners.

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Poor little conehead.

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School assembly.

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Alarick Blanc was elected class prez!

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Science class. My absolute fave.

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Congratulations, Alarick! We totally voted for you.

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Going to Kye & Lilo Kahananui’s apartment after school to help with a science project. (Yes that is their real last name.) They were raised by their granny who used to be our babysitter when we were little.

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The project!

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Random cousin pic:  Eli and Jason. They’re ALWAYS together.

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Midterm study sesh.

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And more studying.

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And I have no life.

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Saying goodbye to Nutmeg before we go run track. I need this. Stress relief!!!!

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Talked Billie into joining track with us. She’s pretty good.

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My posse likes to hang out under the bleachers after P.E.

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School dance tonight. Yaz! Going as just-friends with Cole and Tariq. I think my dad was stoked that our dates were platonic.

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This is how we do it.

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Go Cole! Go Cole!

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That’s Dwight. He’s in a band. Ellie crushes on him hard. He doesn’t even know.

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We helped Billie do her hair and pick out her dress. Love it.

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Line for the girls’ bathroom. ALWAYS. Why are our bladders so small????????????

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Dwight Frederick, Vivienne Tran, and Tariq Ghomari are in a band called “Go Go Train Wreck.”

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They took parts of their last names to make the band name (Ghomari=go, Tran=train, the last part of Frederick = rick = wreck). Get it?

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Ellie, Daisy (Dwight’s sister), and I are their “groupies.” But not in a weird way.

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Great rehearsal today, chica, high five!

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Vivienne and Tariq are a thing.

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My favorite kid—Joslyn. Babysitting her tonight. She’s Alarick’s and Cole’s half sister (but Alarick and Cole aren’t related).

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Joslyn gloating after she beat me at foosball. Not cool, Joslyn, not cool.

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Alarick usually watches Joslyn, but he can’t today because of an internship he’s doing at the company where my mom and dad work. He’s very ambitious. And hot. He’s very hot.

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Senior year! Signed up for music class this semester.

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Check out Ellie checking out Dwight.

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Why is Lilo doing that right now? Dork.

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Speaking of dorks… super embarrassing picture of me.

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At the Community Teen Center after school. I guess Kye’s practice was pretty exhausting today.

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The leaky sink at the Teen Center along with the broken fridge that shoots electricity into the water. Real safe.

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Everybody knows about the back hallway at the Teen Center where you can go to get some privacy.

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So Billie and Cole are a thing now (BTW I totally saw this coming).

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Ellie and I also have boyfriends now. Double date night at the movies.

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Ellie is with Dwight & Alarick is my Boo.

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Except now that they’re together, Ellie and Dwight are always fighting about something. Not to be mean but…I think he’s kinda immature to be someone’s boyfriend. Nice guy but not the best at boyfriending.

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I heart my boyfriend!!!

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Alarick wanted us all to meet at the Center because he said he had something important to tell us. I know that Joslyn is Destiny and Beau’s kid, and I know that Alarick is Destiny’s kid from another dad, but what I didn’t know, and what Alarick told us today, was that Alarick’s dad is Diego Lobo–my parents’ boss and one of the richest guys in the city.

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Wait, what?? Alarick has known all his life, but his parents wanted to keep it private until he turned 18. I’m not sure why. Plus, to make matters even more complicated, I’m pretty sure his dad totally has a boyfriend.

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Alarick apologized to us for keeping it a secret, but he respected his parents’ wishes. I was like what can you do? Parents are weird. It’s not that big of a deal.

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San Myshuno’s next top chefs!

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Making food for our graduation party later.

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Taking pictures while we wait for people to start showing up.

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Oops. We were supposed to be doing our gansta faces for this one. I didn’t get the memo.

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People are starting to arrive!

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My Aunt Izumi.

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Mom is still baking.

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Alarick’s dad and his dad’s boyfriend. And also Alarick’s dad’s boyfriend is the nephew of my grandpa’s girlfriend. Bwahaha. Don’t even try to figure it out.

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OMG Joslyn is here!

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Have a seat & let’s catch up!

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Destiny:  Alarick’s and Joslyn’s mom. She never married either of their dads, but she’s still together with Beau (Joslyn’s dad). Don’t worry, she always dresses like that.

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Cute moment between Joslyn and her half-brother, Cole.

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Speaking of cute…Cole and Billie. Cute couple!

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There are a thousand people in my apartment!!

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Watch us play a really mean trick on Grandma Goth…

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We told her we decided not to go to college because we didn’t think we needed it. Psych.

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That’s Denise standing behind the couch—Freddy Norman’s aunt and Grandpa Davenport’s main squeeze.

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Nutmeg photobomb!

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Nutmeg waiting for food to drop. That’s our previous babysitter, Kani, in the green dress. She’s the nicest lady.

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I guess Aunt Cassandra doesn’t like the food we made??

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My mom and Uncle Tony.

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Dad’s face when my sister and her boyfriend do PDA. Priceless.

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We got to meet my cousin Jason’s new girlfriend, Aarohi Parikh (everyone just calls her Roe). She’s super nice and super pretty.

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Grandpa Goth congratulating Ellie. That’s sweet, but why do they have to do it in my room?

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Grandma Goth and Grandpa Davenport at the end of the table.

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Aunt Janine helping to clean up after the party.

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Mom had the idea to take this shot in front of the clock as a symbol of how quickly time passes. I think it’s really cool!

Next: Destiny’s Story

1.6 Family Life and a Gala

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We’ve been looking at apartments all day. The kids are tired and cranky, and seriously, so are we.

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But my spirits lifted when we walked into this place, an old, traditional building that has been newly renovated and modernized. They recently gutted the whole thing and started over–looks fantastic!

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Even the bathroom is super cute! And there’s a half bath in the master bedroom!!

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The girls checking out what would be their room. It’s a small room and not a great view, but I don’t think they even care. They’re just thrilled they don’t have to share a room with us anymore.

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Okay, when the twins start poking each other, that’s a sign it’s time to go. Alexander and I talked afterward, and we both like the location and the price (and the half bath in the master!), so we’re going to take it!

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So, we signed the lease and are all set to move in a few weeks. In the meantime, we’re celebrating the twins’ birthday at Cupcakes, Kiddos, and Chaos.

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Cupcakes, Kiddos, and Chaos is a lot like Chuck E. Cheese, except instead of pizza and creepy giant rats, they have cupcakes and creepy giant gnomes, haha. Here are my two girls, Cassie Jan (left) and Ellie Peyton (right), posing in front of one now.

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I baked two cakes–1 chocolate and 1 strawberry, as requested.

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Alexander and I were laughing about how all of their friends are boys.

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The girls and their friends loved playing the games.

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But I think the person who loved playing there the most was my husband! I jokingly asked him if he wanted us to have his birthday there, too. Half jokingly.

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So after eating cake, the next logical step is to have cupcakes, right? Yep, we’re good parents, uh huh.

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So we are all moved in now. Even though we moved from a 1-bedroom to a 2-bedroom, we actually had to buy very little–a few rugs and a few new pieces of art, curtains, of course, and new dining chairs. But we got rid of some of our old furniture (my old orange sofa set) because we didn’t have room and also because it was pretty stained and torn up.

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These keys are part of the new artwork–I saw them and I had to have them!

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The girls’ room is so cute, too!

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It feels so good to have everything moved in and set up. Don’t tell the twins we were kissing on their bed–they’d have a fit!

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This is what the master bedroom looks like.

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It’s a nice size.

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And I love my new kitchen so much!

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Okay, so I spoke too soon. Shortly after we moved in, this happened. At least Alexander was able to fix the sink himself and not have to call in a repairman, so we didn’t have to wait for it to be fixed, and our landlord reimbursed us for the parts.

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And then this happened–one of our computers started to smoke!

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Alexander worked on it all day. It started working again, but that only lasted for a couple of days, and then it just died. So right after having to shell out a bunch of money for the apartment, we had to shell out a bunch more for a new computer. Not the best timing.

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It’s the weekend. They just added a yoga studio to our gym, so later this morning, I’m going to a yoga class with some of my friends. That’s why Alexander is in charge of breakfast. He went with cold pizza. Okay then. When I get back, we’re going to the flea market.

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So we recently reconnected with our old high school friend, Freddie Norman. We hadn’t really seen much of him since high school, except once at our wedding, even though his aunt, Denise Norman, is dating my dad. It turns out Freddie’s gay and recently came out. This explains why he went to the wedding and to prom by himself (but not why he wore a gym suit to prom–that will never be explained, haha).

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He was a weird kid in high school, but now he’s hot. And speaking of hot, this is his boyfriend Max Flex.

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So I think I might have a crush on a guy who is 1) dating my friend and 2) totally not into women. Oh yeah, and I’m married, too–I totally forgot for a minute, LOL.

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The flea market was fun. Well, at least I had fun. They even have live music there. I liked this woman’s performance a lot and so did Cassie, but Alexander and Ellie had a different opinion.

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We usually go just to look around and don’t buy very much, but I saw these darling dragon statues and just had to have one.

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I knew it would look so perfect on our window shelf at home.

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Today is a school (and work) day. We managed to get the kids into a really great private school, Villareal Prepatory School. I recently went back to working full time–I wish I could just go to school today instead!

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Anyway, Villareal Prepatory has excellent academic standards and a high rate of kids who go on to attend university.

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The kids’ favorite classes are science…

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…and computer science.

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Both Alexander and I have been feeling a little stressed out at work lately. So, we decided to take a family vacation.

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We rented a darling cabin in the woods at Granite Falls. The cabin even had a loft bedroom, which the twins loved.

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They got to hang out and sleep up there. They were far enough away from us to have their privacy but close enough to spy on us over the rail, LOL.

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Alexander got it into his head that we should all go fishing, even though none of us knows how to fish. But we figured it out.

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Cassie was the first one to catch a fish! I was so proud of her. Alexander caught a couple, too. Ellie and I struck out.

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Alexander grilled the fish up on the barbecue. It was so fresh and tasty. Even the girls liked it and didn’t complain about the fishiness.

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We also took the kids to the tourist center where we had visited on our honeymoon.

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They got a really big kick out of the bug collection they have there.

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Of course, you can’t go on a wilderness trip without roasting a few marshmallows.

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Alexander was a little bit overzealous about getting the fire as big as possible. I told him to be careful. He never listens.

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I made some french toast for breakfast on our last day of vacation. We’re so relaxed now. This was just what we needed.

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When we got back home, we were immediately stressed out again when we heard they were trying to ban certain breeds of dogs from our city. Uh, no. That is the most idiotic thing I’ve ever heard.

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Of course, we joined in the protest. The city backed down, too.

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When Ellie and Cassie were babies, we had a plan to always make time to go out on dates. Well, that didn’t last for very long. Anyway, we haven’t been on a date in forever, so we’re going on one today. Their older cousins, Eli and Jason, are coming over to babysit.

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“Help yourselves to anything in the fridge!”

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“Okay, love you. You guys be good for your cousins!”

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The twins love hanging out with their older cousins. I think they actually couldn’t wait for us to leave, haha.

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Our date last week was fun. This week, we got a sitter again, and we met up with Beau and Destiny at a cafe.

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While we were there, we happened to run into Freddie. He looked so depressed. I guess Max is kind of noncommittal, and he broke it off. Poor Freddie was so sad. And I was kind of sad, too, because now I can’t crush on Max anymore.

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Freddie seemed to cheer up, though, after hanging out with us.

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And speaking of romances, I asked Alexander if he thought Destiny and Beau were getting kind of flirty with each other at the cafe, and he said yes. Beau’s ex, Olivia, moved out of San Myshuno and back to Willow Creek basically, leaving him to raise Cole by himself. He never really got over her,  but maybe this means he’s finally ready to move on. Or maybe they’re just being flirty, and it won’t go any further than that. We’ll have to wait and see.

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Well, we’re in Willow Creek this weekend. Today we’re visiting with the Goth side of the family. I could think of better things to do than hang out with my mother-in-law, if I’m being honest, but I also think it’s good for the twins to get to see their relatives. We’ll spend the night here, and then tomorrow, we’ll visit with my side of the family.

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Cassie and Tariq sat at the kids’ table. Ellie felt pretty special eating at the adult table.

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Alexander says his mom looks this good at her age because they have good genes. I say it’s because she had some work done.

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Ellie playing chess with Grandma Goth.

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Bella loves Omar. He knows how to charm her.

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There’s a little park down the street from the Goth’s house that only the locals know about. We let the kids walk down there and play for a little bit.

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Cassie likes to be the “captain” of the ship.

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So, we are going to the pool today with all the Davenports! Well, almost all. Eli had a school thing, so he couldn’t make it. A short talk before we go in about manners and safety.

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The public pool hasn’t changed much since I was a kid, but the diving platform is new. I thought the girls were pretty brave to try it out (I wasn’t brave enough to try it).

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Alexander liked the platform, too!

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Dad got water in his ear from diving off the platform.

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The girls looked so cute in their new sunglasses. They liked them so much, they didn’t even want to take them off when they went in the water.

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They had fun seeing their cousins and uncles and everyone.

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It was a pretty full pool with all of us there!

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We’re back in the city, and I’m meeting up with Destiny at the gym today during my lunch hour. I could tell something was up the minute I saw her face.

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So, here’s the scoop. Her and Beau hooked up a few times recently, and…she’s pregnant! It must have happened the first time they were ever together. They were careful, but birth control isn’t 100% effective.

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She was like, “I don’t know how this happened!” and I was like, “I’m pretty sure I know how it happened.” They literally just started seeing each other, so it’s just weird for them. She doesn’t know what she’s going to do.

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Well, I can’t worry about that right now because I have my boss’ gala to go to tonight. My boss is Diego Lobo. He’s a big contributor to the arts, and tonight he’s honoring Darling Walsh for the painting of himself that he commissioned. It’s being displayed in the San Myshuno museum (The Casbah Gallery).

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Alexander was supposed to go, too, but he got sick, so Freddie stepped in as my date at the last minute. I figured he’d probably be free since he’s single now, and that he might want to get out, get his mind off the breakup, and also possibly talk to some cute guys. I was right.

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Cassandra and Omar were there, too (Omar works at my same company). I couldn’t believe how amazing Cassandra looked! Stunning.

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Darling was the center of attention. Everyone wanted to talk to her. I was wondering how she’d handle it because she’s not the most social person, but she was fine and just totally in her element in an art gallery.

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Her partner Erika was there to support her, too. They’ve really made it big in the art world. I’m so happy for them and for Darling in particular tonight! Malcolm Landgraab was there, as well, which makes sense, as he’s also a big supporter of the arts. I haven’t heard much about him since he slept with Beau’s wife (now ex wife). I’m not a fan of Malcolm’s.

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Ugh! I was shocked to see my nemesis Zoe Patel there, and doubly shocked that she’s dating Malcolm! Okay, well, I guess that match kind of makes sense now that I think about it.

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Of course, Zoe is chatting up the two richest men in the room. I’m not saying she’s a gold-digging tart, but you do the math.

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Anyways, my boss had his eye on this woman for most of the evening. I’m not sure who she is. My boss is known as a lady’s man. And as a man’s man, too, if you know what I mean. He’s basically everybody’s man.

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I’m pretty sure I saw some sparks fly between him and Freddie earlier on, too.

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So the gala was a huge success, and when it ended, I think he left with that woman, whoever she was.

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My friends and I weren’t ready for the party to end, so we had an impromptu afterparty at Freddie’s place.

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He has a total bachelor’s pad! It was the perfect place to end the evening.

Next: Cassie’s Teenage Life

Archived Stories

This page is for my old, defunct sims stories. To see my current, active story, go to my homepage. My old stories are:

    • Vampire Bob, A vampire who just wants to be a regular guy (Sims 2)
    • Kingsgate, A medieval kingdom (Sims Medieval)
    • Cactus Blossom, A small desert town of polygamous sims (Sims 2)

http://www.charmroyal.com/graphics/dividers.php?page=2

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You might think it would be cool to be a vampire, but Vampire Bob just wants to be a regular guy.  Follow Bob as he tries to find his place in the world and searches for true love. (This is the only sims story I’ve written as an actual story, so it has a plot. Unfortunately, my game crashed, so I only have the three chapters.)

http://www.charmroyal.com/graphics/dividers.php?page=2

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Have you ever wondered what life was really like in medieval times?  Well, you won’t find out here, but click through anyway! (The way the game is set up made it too hard to carry on generations [it can be done, but it’s a pain], so I just gave up on this. It has no ending, but it’s kind of fun just to see what Sims Medieval looks like from inside the game.)

Info for Other TSM Players:

First Generation:

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The town of Cactus Blossom is a haven where polygamy has been legalized and families can live their lives without fear of persecution.  Follow Mark Clark as his family grows…and grows…and grows. (My game crashed, so I lost all of my data, but I have a short, humorous postscript on the last entry to say what happened to the family.)

http://www.charmroyal.com/graphics/dividers.php?page=2

Other Stuff

1.5 Toddler Times Two

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Life with little kids is a never-ending whirlwind.

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There’s very little time to yourself.

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But we’re happy and wouldn’t change a thing. Moments like this make it all worth it–Daddy dancing with Cassie.

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As you can see, we’re still in the same 1-bedroom apartment and very cramped for space. We’ve basically turned the hallway into another room and just moved a bunch of our furniture there.

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All 4 of us share the same bedroom. We’re hoping to move into a 2-bedroom apartment by the time Cassie and Ellie start grade school.

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Bedtimes are always a challenge; one goes to sleep and the other one wakes up; then that one goes to sleep and the first one wakes up. We always congratulate ourselves when we get them both to sleep–it’s a major accomplishment!

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Alexander and I still work at the same corporation. I went part time, and he turned down a promotion because it would mean he’d have to travel and spend time away from the family. We prioritized family time over money. It was a tough decision, but we feel like we made the right call.

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This is Kani Kahananui, our babysitter. She’s from Hawaii. Ellie and Cassie love her! She’s raising her two grandsons, also fraternal twins, Kye and Lilo.

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Her apartment building is kind of run down, but she keeps everything neat and clean. We were SO lucky to find her as she only has room for a limited number of clients.

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It’s the weekend, so we don’t need a babysitter today. This is our friend, Destiny Blanc, and her son Alarick. We met them through our parenting group.

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We went to Royosa Park with them today.

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The girls love climbing on the rocks there.

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They also really like to play with the little castle.

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Ellie had one of her tantrums (what else is new?) and damaged part of the castle, but other than that, things went pretty well. (So if you go to the park later and see the damage, that was my child–sorry!)

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It’s going to be a full day because later tonight, our parenting group is meeting up at Destiny’s apartment. We have meet-ups every 2 weeks and rotate whose home they’re at. I love it when the party is at Destiny’s!

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And this is why I love Destiny’s home–she has a bar and dance floor in the middle of her living room! Can you believe it?! It’s not a huge living room, either, so you know she had to prioritize that, LOL.

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All the babies are here! That’s Destiny’s son on the stairs, Beau and Olivia’s child, Cole, in the foreground, and my girls and Tariq in the background (Tariq belongs to Omar and Cassandra).

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Destiny is a single mom. Her 2-bedrom apartment is posh, AND she has a spacious balcony, AND she has a huge kitchen. She doesn’t work, so I just assume she has family money. She’s a total party girl, but she also takes really good care of her son.

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Beau is always helping other people out and is so considerate. He apologized to me awhile ago for being overly friendly when I was a newlywed. He said it was no excuse, but he was having problems in his own marriage and he just always thought I was such a great person. Of course, I accepted his apology–how could I not accept such a sweet apology as that?

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Well, there was no parenting group this weekend, so the moms all went out for a Girl’s Night while the dads all stayed home with the kids. Sounds fair to me!

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Destiny said she knew of this great bar called Narwhal’s or something like that (I can’t remember now–I know it had a weird name), so we all went there.

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I was so glad Erika and Darling could come, too, because I hardly get to see them anymore.

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The bar had this great upstairs area where it was less noisy and you could hang out and talk.

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Olivia had too much to drink and passed out! Darling was like, “Is she okay?” And the rest of us were just like, “Well, she’s snoring, so she must be okay.”

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Eventually, Olivia woke up and started dancing. The music was so good! Destiny was getting hit on by this dude who looked like Colonel Sanders of Kentucky Fried Chicken. This is me giving her a look like “Do you like him?” Afterward, we were all asking her if she was too “chicken” to go out with him, LOL.

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Another week has gone by, and it’s time for our parenting group again, this time at Omar and Cassandra’s apartment.

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Olivia doesn’t come to a lot of the parenting group meet-ups, but Beau was there with Cole. Cassie adores Beau.

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Omar and Cassandra used to have their second bedroom as the foosball room,  but they had to give it up and make it into Tariq’s room. No problem for them–they just dedicated their living room to foosball instead!

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Tariq’s middle name is Xander, named for his Uncle Alexander. He’s such a cute kid!

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Speaking of Uncle Alexander, here’s a photo of him having his food mooched by Cassie. She just ate 5 minutes before this was taken–I swear we really do feed our kids! Haha. We won’t be here for the next parent group meet-up because we’ll be taking the kids to our home town of Willow Creek to see the family.

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So I got some weird news when I was on my break at work today. Apparently, Beau and Olivia broke up??!! I’m not sure what the whole story is, but I’m hoping Beau still comes to the family party in Willow Creek next weekend so I can ask him what happened! (Beau isn’t related to me, but my brother, Tony, is married to his sister, Janine.)

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So here we are in Willow Creek. Tony and Janine are having a family barbecue. I’ve been looking forward to this for weeks!

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It’s still kind of weird sometimes to see my brother adulting even though he got married and had kids before I did.

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It’s a cool, overcast day. I wish the sun would come out.

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I love spending time with my family. That’s my oldest brother, Nick, beside me, and my dad and his girlfriend, Denise.

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I didn’t really like Denise when I first met her because I wasn’t used to Dad having a girlfriend, but then I realized what a nice person she is, so we get along fine now.

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It’s amazing to see how fast the boys are growing. That’s my nephew Jason (Nick’s kid), followed by my nephew Eli (Tony’s kid). Those two are thick as thieves.

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Here’s Jason and grandpa having a sit-up contest, haha. Sometimes I wonder what our lives would have been like if we had stayed in Willow Creek, closer to family, but I really can’t imagine ever giving up city life now. I love it too much.

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I’m just glad the town of Willow Creek is close enough that we can get together now and then and the girls can see their cousins and other relatives.

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Ellie sneaking up on her Uncle Tony. Or maybe sneaking up on his hamburger.

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So, Beau did end up coming to the party, and bringing his son, Cole.

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He said he and Olivia did break up, but he couldn’t say much with the kids around, so we went inside to continue the conversation.

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When he finally did tell us the whole story, we were shocked. Here’s what happened…

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A few months ago, Olivia was at a work conference on the outskirts of the city and stopped in to a lounge for a drink before taking the long cab ride home. She was surprised to see her old high school friend, Malcolm, at the bar. (They had actually gone to prom together, but I remember it being as “just friends.”)

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She joined him for a drink, but soon told him she had to get going and catch a cab. He offered to drive her home so that they could continue catching up.

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On the way, he asked if she would mind stopping by his apartment so he could pick something up really quick. (I’ve only been to his parents’ house and not his apartment, but I hear it’s amazing with wrap-around balconies and a view of the city.)

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It was then she started feeling a spark of attraction for him, but nothing happened between them that night. (I don’t care for Malcolm that much, but I can see how someone would be taken with him. He’s not that goofy, spindly-legged kid we went to high school with anymore; he’s tall, handsome, and loaded, and I hear he has become a real smooth-talker.)

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After that, she couldn’t stop thinking about him, even though she was pretty sure she’d never see him again. So, when he unexpectedly called her a couple of weeks later and asked her to meet him, she agreed. But once she got there, she was feeling guilty and decided to tell him they couldn’t meet again.

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Malcolm was very understanding. He confessed his attraction for her but said he didn’t want to get in the way of her marriage. He told her their relationship could be anything she wanted it to be, or it could be nothing at all. If that was what she wanted, for him not to contact her anymore, he’d honor it.

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It was then that she realized how easy it was to be with him, compared to how hard her relationship was with her husband and how they had to work at everything. She decided she did want a relationship with Malcolm, and they started having a romantic affair.

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Beau became suspicious that something was going on with Olivia (I mean, he is a police officer). So, he pretended he had to work an extra shift one day when Cole was in daycare, but staked out their apartment instead, waiting for Olivia to leave so he could follow her. Well, Olivia never left, but he didn’t have to wait long before he saw a familiar face stroll into his apartment building…Malcolm Landgraab!

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He gave him a few minutes then went up to his apartment and found Malcolm and his wife in the bedroom. I mean, his own bedroom!!

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Beau said that if Olivia had not gotten between them, he’s not sure what he would have done to Malcolm in that moment. He might have killed him.

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Malcolm wisely took off, and that’s when Olivia confessed to everything and told Beau the whole story.

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Olivia left the apartment shortly after that. She came back and packed up her stuff when Beau was at work, and he hasn’t seen her since. He’s not even sure where she’s staying.

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So that’s the whole story. I can’t even believe it! I feel so bad for Beau.

Next: Family Life and a Gala

 

 

 

1.4 Sooo Pregnant

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My brother, Tony, and his wife Janine had their child, a little boy: Eli Anthony Davenport. He has THE cutest, curliest hair! It’s adorable!!

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And in other news…I’m pregnant!!!!!!!!! Like super pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Alexander has been so helpful around the house since I got pregnant, mopping the floors…

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…cleaning the toilet…

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…taking out the trash, etc.

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Plus he’s always there to give me a massage when I start feeling tense or achy…

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…or to give me a hug and tell my how beautiful I look. He’s so supportive.

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Today, two of my girlfriends who are also pregnant are coming over for a girls’ day. Alexander cleaned the house, made me breakfast, and is making some snacks for the party.

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Of course, I ate half the chips and salsa before they even got here, haha. I’m so hungry all the time!

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A little pre-party nap before the guests arrive. Making a baby is tiring work.

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It looks like I’m not the only one who needs a nap!

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That moment when you go from being totally unprepared and hoping nobody comes too early to being totally ready and wondering when people are going to start showing up.

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Finally, the guests are here. So, Olivia, Cassandra, and I all got pregnant right around the same time. Olivia is not my closest friend or anything, but she’s my brother’s wife’s brother’s wife (haha, sounds more complicated than it is!), so it seemed only right that I invite her.

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We ate a lot and talked a lot–my kind of day.  (Sheesh–look how huge I am!)

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Some nights I wake up because I have to go to the bathroom, and then I can’t get back to sleep. So I read my parenting books.

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And I eat. I read and eat.

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We’re always reading about how to raise a child. We don’t want to mess up this kid’s entire life because we don’t know what we’re doing!

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Oh my gosh, I’m in labor! I’m freaking out!! Alexander is so good about calming me down. What would I do without him? (Besides not be pregnant, haha.)

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Just waiting until it’s time. Walking helps with the labor pains. I don’t want to do this. I want to go home! Can I just go home now?

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Okay, it’s almost time. Just waiting for the doctor now. Thank goodness for the baby extracting machine. Childbirth must have been awful for women before they invented that. I can’t even imagine.

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Alexander checking in on me. “How are you feeling, babe? You’re doing great.” He’s so sweet.

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Oh. My. Gosh. We had twin girls (fraternal)!! We had no idea we were pregnant with twins! Welcome to the world Cassie Jan Goth (named for her Aunt Cassandra and her Aunt Janine). We had a girl name and a boy name all picked out, but we had to come up with a second girl name quickly. So, welcome to the world Ellie Peyton Goth (Ellie is a derivative of my name, and we just really liked the name Peyton).

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Alexander’s face when he realized there was a second baby.

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Daddy holds Ellie for the very first time!

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Our first night with the twins at home. I have no idea how we’re going to do this, but I guess we’ll figure it out. It’s going to be an amazing adventure!

Next: Toddler Times Two

1.3 Newlywed Life

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Alexander and I tied the knot!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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I’m now Mrs. Elise Davenport Goth.

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My sister-in-law, Janine, was my matron of honor, although she didn’t much like being called a “matron,” so we just called her my “babe of honor,” haha. Here she is saying “Welcome to the family!” to my husband. (Wow–it’s so cool to say that word–“husband.”)

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The venue was the Casbah Gallery Art Centre in San Myshuno. It was the perfect place for the elegant wedding I’ve always wanted.

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Here we are feeding cake to each other.

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Oh geez, whose wedding is this anyway? Haha. I hope Alexander and I are still this romantic after we’ve been married for awhile.

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I think the reception went really well. Even my dad was breaking it down on the dance floor!

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Janine is such a good dancer.

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I love this picture of me and my dad. He always supported me and my dreams. I know it probably wasn’t always easy being a single father. He’s the best dad anyone could ever have.

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Alexander and I making the rounds of the tables. (By the way, thank you to the wonderful people at Simsdom for making my custom wedding skirt–they are such good seamstresses!)

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My other new sister-in-law, Cassandra, congratulating me.

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My mother-in-law wore black to the celebration. I’m not sure how to take this. Is this just her style, or is she making a statement about the wedding??

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Here she is congratulating Alexander.

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My father-in-law, Mortimer, having drinks with Omar.

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We had an open bar. It must have cost my dad a fortune. My friends like to drink!

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My boss, Diego, trying to explain how a marriage is like a piece of clay. Yeah, I don’t get it either, plus he has never been married before in his life. He had a lot to drink that day, too, LOL.

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Love this candid photo of me and my brother, Tony.

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The arts centre was a great place to take wedding photos. I asked the photographer to take some artsy shots.

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This was the happiest day of my life!

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We spent our honeymoon at Granite Falls. I know it’s a cliche because that’s where everyone goes for their honeymoon, but I had never been before, and I really wanted to go.

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I mean, check out that amazing view of the waterfall behind me!

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Okay, don’t judge me, you guys. I know people normally wear sexy lingerie on their honeymoon, but it’s COLD in the woods!

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We had a cute, little cabin that wasn’t too far from the ranger station and all the amenities, like this fire pit. When we were planning the trip, Alexander wanted to rough it and sleep out in the forest, but I was like, “No way.” I told him that if he didn’t get us a cabin, he’d be going on his honeymoon by himself, haha.

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It was great getting away and spending quality time, just the two of us.

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So now it’s back to the grindstone. So hard getting back into the routine after being on vacation and doing whatever we wanted whenever we wanted. I usually make breakfast since Alexander is slow to wake up. It does make it easier to get up in the morning, though, when I get to see this handsome, hunky guy. My husband is so cute.

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Alexander got promoted to Sales Manager at work, and now he has his own office! I’m so proud of him. Our careers are going really well. When I was a teenager, I wanted to become a writer, but that’s just not practical. I’m so glad I found this job at Megacorp and that we can work together.

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Even though the honeymoon was awesome, I missed my friends, so we got together with some people shortly after we got back and went to the movies.

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The best thing about the movies is the popcorn!

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Popcorn fail.

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After the movie ends, we like to check out the posters to see what’s coming out next.

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My brother never stops eating, haha.

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Even though our lives are busy with work, family, and friends, we try to carve some time out for romantic outings with just us.

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We had to work the next day, so our drink of choice was rootbeer floats. They were good!

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I don’t karaoke very much anymore because Alexander hates it, so instead, we decided to do something we both like and treated ourselves to gym memberships. The San Myshuno gym is expensive but very nice and totally worth it.

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Beau Lane (my high school boyfriend) and Olivia Spencer-Kim-Lewis got married and moved to the city. Olivia completed her schooling to be an x-ray tech, and Beau got accepted to the San Myshuno Police Department and finished his training at the police academy.

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We went to dinner at their place. A quick kiss before we knock.

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How guys say hello. So dramatic, haha.

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Things started out normally enough, but then it got weird fast.

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Beau was paying a little too much attention to me, and Olivia was giving me looks.

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At one point, Beau leaned in to tell me something in a low voice. I don’t even remember what it was.

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So then Alexander, who is super jealous even when there’s nothing to be jealous about, was getting annoyed, to put it mildly.

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After dinner, Beau did the dishes. Olivia was putting him down in front of us, saying how he couldn’t cook so he had to do the dishes. She just needles him and he doesn’t say anything. I would have offered to help with the dishes, but I think that would’ve just caused more problems.

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If that wasn’t uncomfortable enough, Olivia was starting to come on to Alexander! Alexander says I’m imagining it and she was just being friendly, but I don’t think so. Guys can be clueless about that kind of thing sometimes.

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She asked to take a selfie with Alexander, but not with me and not with the group. Did I imagine that? Anyway, we decided that we would see them if there was a group thing, but we’re never getting together with just them again. Too many strange vibes.

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Cassandra Goth and Omar Ghomari got engaged. Darling moved out and Omar moved in with Cassandra. Their apartment soon became the party place, which is funny because Cassandra used to be so straight-laced and serious before she met him.

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They turned Darling’s old room into a foosball room.

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I mean, how awesome is it to have a room dedicated to foosball??

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Their hallway is a dartboard competition zone. (Although it is a bit nerve-wracking to walk in the front door–you have to be careful!)

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And get this, Omar put a massage table in the living room! LOL! The first time I saw him giving someone a massage in the middle of a party, I was like, “What the heck is going on??” I think the older lady is his neighbor–she looks like she’s thinking the same thing.

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The coolest thing about their house is that they made one whole wall a mural, which all of their friends are slowly contributing to over time. Can’t wait to see what it looks like eventually.

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Plus they always have brownies at their house. They make the absolute best brownies I’ve ever had. I always feel so happy after I eat them.

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We were at a party over there the other night, and Alexander was getting a drink out of the fridge when Olivia shoved in front of him to get something. It was way too close and super obvious. And I was standing right there.

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Alexander giving me the it-wasn’t-my-fault look. At least now he believes me that she’s coming on to him.

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We went to my nephew, Jason’s, birthday party!

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I can’t believe he’s already a toddler. Here he is with his mom and Grandpa.

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A bunch of us drove in from the city together. Cassandra was around somewhere, too.

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He really made out with all the presents!

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At first, he wasn’t quite sure about Alexander.

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But then they became best buds.

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Jason was pretty excited about the cake. (So was I, to tell the truth.)

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Mortimer and Bella were the ones brave enough to sit next to him while he ate (or maybe they were just the ones who were too slow to move, haha).

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So, you might be wondering who that red-headed lady is to the left of the picture. Well…she’s my dad’s new girlfriend! I thought it was so weird that my dad was starting to date, but then Alexander pointed out that he has probably been dating for awhile; he just never introduced us kids to his girlfriends before.

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Her name is Denise. She looks so familiar to me. I wonder if it’s just because I’ve seen her around town before but didn’t really pay any attention? Anyway, she seems nice enough, but I still don’t like her. I mean, I don’t hate her, but I don’t like her. I guess I’m happy for my dad if he’s happy. I guess.

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Wow, we went through that cake, fast!

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So this happened.

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Jason is definitely a wild child–very active. It’s a good thing Nick and Izumi stay fit so they can keep up with him! He looks like he had a  good time at his birthday party.

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Back in the city. Another weekend, another party. Darling Walsh and Erika Okada moved in together and threw a housewarming party. Erika made curry. It was good but REALLY spicy hot. I might get the recipe and try toning it down a bit.

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Their apartment is so tiny that they actually had to throw two housewarming parties–one for Erika’s former roommates and one for their Willow Creek friends. They just couldn’t fit everyone in at once. They managed to squeeze a rented karaoke machine into their living room, though, which I was thrilled about!

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Poor Alexander. There was some sales department emergency at work that he had to deal with, so he was on and off the phone all night. It’s not easy being the manager. It’s not my department, so I was free to just karaoke.

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We got invited to a get-together at the Blue Velvet with my family in Willow Creek, Tony and Janine’s treat. We’re not going to pass that up!

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Wait. I thought this was supposed to be a family gathering. What’s she doing here?

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Okay, Elise, put on your best fake smile in 3…2…1…

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Oh, hey.

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After dinner, Tony said they had an announcement…

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Janine and Tony are pregnant! I’m going to be an aunt again!!!!!

Next: Sooo Pregnant

1.2 Move to the Big City

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Right after high school graduation, I started searching for an apartment in the city. It took a lot of looking, but I finally found the perfect place! It’s in the Jasmine Suites building. Now I just have to paint the walls and find some cheap furniture. Oh yeah, and a job. A job would be good. Can’t wait to move in!!!

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Moving day is finally here! I can’t believe it. My old room looks so bare now that most of the furniture is moved out.

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Pizza for everyone who helped me move in–thank you, you guys! (My dad, brothers, and bestie who is also my younger brother’s girlfriend.)

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Here, let me give you a tour. Living room (thanks to my dad for buying me the living room/dining room furniture–yes, I’m spoiled).

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Kitchen and dining.

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Bathroom.

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Bedroom (fortunately, I already had bedroom furniture I could just take with me).

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Another angle of the bedroom.

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And another angle of the bedroom. I love my dressing area!

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So yeah, you might be wondering how I can afford this awesome apartment without a job. Well, it took some convincing to get my dad to let his baby girl move to San Myshuno, but not only did he agree eventually, he even offered to support me for the first year. After that, if I can’t make it on my own, I can always move back to Willow Creek (except I REALLY don’t want to). So, I guess I’d better start looking for that job!

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So…first night in the city by myself. I might as well try some of the street cuisine. Cheap and delicious.

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And cheap entertainment, too!

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I’ve been in the city for 2 weeks, and this is what my Friday night looks like–me doing pushups in my bunny slippers by myself. It’s lonelier than I thought it would be.

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Saturday morning. I decided that I wasn’t going to meet any people staying inside my apartment, so I went outside to shoot some hoops. But then I still didn’t meet any people. Oh well, at least I got some sun.

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So I struck up a conversation with this city worker the other night. I think that’s a sign I’m getting desperate for friends, haha. He was cute, though. Next weekend, my brothers are going to come hang out with me. Can’t wait! I’m so homesick.

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Had a great time with my brothers today. They had a meeting in the city (they sell gym equipment), so they hooked me up with a free gym pass for the day. We had so much fun!

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Tony always sneaks up behind me and scares the crap out of me. Not funny! Okay, I think that cured me of my homesickness, LOL. But seriously, it was so fun seeing my bros. On Wednesday, my high school friends Cassandra and Darling are coming out.

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I got to hang out with Cassandra Goth and Darling Walsh today! We met up at the museum because Darling is totally into art. She’s totally NOT into Public Displays of Affection, though, haha. It’s okay, Darling; I won’t hug you.

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They told me they decided to be roommates, and they’re in town looking for an apartment. I’m so stoked that someone else I know is moving to the city!!

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At least now I’ll know 2 people!

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Been in the city for 6 weeks now, and I think I finally found my groove–literally. I started going to the karaoke bar by my house, and I met some really nice people! Yay, I have friends now!!

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I also met some hot guys. I’ve even gone on a couple of dates, but nothing serious.

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So, I had a really weird experience last night. This guy I went to school with, Malcolm Landgraab, had a party, and I was excited because I was hoping to see some of my old friends there. It turns out, nobody I knew was there, but the party was pretty fun anyway. Until Malcolm started walking around in his socks and underwear. WTH? I guess he thought he was funny. It was super awkward, so I left. I don’t think I’ll be going to any more of his parties!!! Weirdo.

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Cassandra and Darling are all moved in to their apartment! I was their first dinner guest. Darling asked me where I was working, and I was just like, “Uhhhh….” Wow, I can’t believe I’ve wasted almost 2 months just basically goofing off. I really need to get serious about looking for work.

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After filling out a million applications and going on a thousand interviews, I finally landed a part time, minimum wage job working at a food stand. And I’m very happy to have this job! I was pumped to go get trained for my first day, until…

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I met my trainer, Zoe Patel. She’s a sarcastic B and was totally rude to me for no reason. I don’t even know what her problem is. Oh well, once I’m trained, I’ll work the stand by myself, so I only have to put up with her snottiness for a short time. Thank God.

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Darling is coming over later for lunch and bringing a friend that she met in the city (Erika Okada), so I’m making a salad and baking some cookies.

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Hmmm, I guess Darling and her friend are REALLY friendly. Feeling a little bit like a third wheel here.

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I got 2 pieces of fantastic news recently. My brother, Tony, proposed to Janine, and she said………..yes!

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And my brother Nick and his wife Izumi had their baby. A little boy named Jason Nicholas Davenport. Darling and I are going to drive to our hometown next month and spend the night for an engagement party, and I’ll get to see the baby!

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Tony and Janine’s engagement party. I should have realized that Beau, my high school ex, would be there since he’s Janine’s brother, but I never thought about it. So that was slightly weird and awkward.

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Finally, I get to see the baby. So cuuuute!!!

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Now I want a baby. I guess maybe I need to get a man first, haha.

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I was surprised by how nurturing Tony was with the baby. He’s going to make a great farther someday. He’s a natural.

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Had a great time just being with my family and catching up on all the family news!

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Until Izumi started talking about the delivery and sharing way too many gross details. OMG! I totally don’t want to have a baby now. Nope. Never ever.

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Went to work out with my brothers again, and you’ll never guess who I ran into–my high school crush, Alexander Goth! I can’t believe Cassandra didn’t tell me he was in town. The last I heard, he was halfway across the country in a fast-track training program for a management position at MegaCorp.

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Apparently he finished his training and is relocating to the city to work at their corporate headquarters. We got caught up on things while my brothers looked on overprotectively, LOL. I made plans to meet up at his apartment next week with him and his sister, and maybe Darling, too.

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So, Alexander has a really chic, modern apartment. He seems to be doing so well. He’s even cuter than I remember, too. I’m kind of intimidated by him.

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I told him how hard it has been for me to find a job, and he said he knew of a position at his company and would put in a good word for me.

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I have an interview at MegaCorp today! Everything has to look perfect. I’m so nervous!!! Wish me luck.

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I interviewed directly with the company owner, Diego Lobo, and…I got the job! One of the workers is quitting, so I’d train with her for a few days and then I’d take over as a full time employee!

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He went to introduce me to the the person who would be training me, and….oh you have got to be kidding me. My arch nemesis, Zoe Patel?! Noooo!

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Was heading out of the house for work this morning when my fuse box went on the fritz. Great, just what I need. I called the landlord, but he didn’t seem in that much of a hurry to fix it.

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Things have been interesting at work. Zoe was just as annoying as I thought she’d be, but she’s gone now. After a couple of weeks, I’m finally getting comfortable with all of the software and procedures, and I might be imagining it, but I think that there’s some romantic tension between Alexander and me.

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Alexander asked me if I wanted to go get a drink after work. Of course, I said yes. I was a little nervous, so I might have drunk a little more than I should have.

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We talked all night, and when the bar was closing, neither of us wanted the night to end, so I invited him over to my place.

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Things were going really well, and then the lights went out!

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Like, all of a sudden, we were just sitting there in the dark, LOL. Instead of ruining the mood, though, it just made things even more romantic. Maybe I should be happy that my landlord is a flake?

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Alexander and I have been out a few times now, and I’m really falling for him.

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We ended up at his place last night, and one thing led to another.

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I won’t go into details, but let’s just say…

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He’s making me breakfast this morning. 🙂

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Tony and Janine got married at her parent’s house. She looked so beautiful!

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Janine being congratulated by her brother while her dad looks on. So sweet!

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Here are the 2 lovebirds after the ceremony. Now my best friend is also my sister!

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Good news! I got promoted to office manager at work. The job is pretty straightforward, and everyone seems to like me.

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Well, everyone except for that grumpy guy behind me, but he doesn’t like anyone, so it’s fine. I can handle him.

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Speaking of things I have to handle, everyone once in awhile, Zoe stops by the office even though she hasn’t worked here in months. She says it’s because she wants to keep in touch with everyone, but I think it’s because she doesn’t have any friends due to her obnoxious personality. Whatever. It’s not so bad as long as there are other people around and I’m not left alone with her.

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(Sigh.)

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I’ve been in the city for 1 year now (time flies!), so I went out to celebrate and karaoke with new friends, work friends, and even an old high school friend, Olivia. Tony and Janine came, too.

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The one person that wasn’t there, but was supposed to be, was Alexander. That’s me on the phone going, “Where are you?!” He doesn’t really like karaoke, but he said he’d come for me.

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I love this candid photo of Tony!

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Me on the phone again. “We’re going to the next bar. Just meet us there.”

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Second karaoke bar and still no Alexander, but the rest of us are having fun.

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Omar has such a good voice! Love doing duets with him.

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These two.

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Alexander finally showed up, but then he quickly disappeared. I was SO annoyed with him.

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But then I found him in a room by himself, practicing. Oh my gosh, so sweet! He hates karaoke, but he was practicing just for me. Then I felt so bad about being snippy with him.

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It turned out to be a pretty awesome night. I love my friends, and I love my boyfriend!

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I had to stop by Omar’s house last night to pick something up, and I walked in on this. Wait, what? Cassandra and Omar are dating? I didn’t even know they knew each other. Apparently, this was common knowledge to everyone but me.

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Well, things are getting serious between Alexander and me. We decided to move in together!

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Then we immediately started arguing about whose apartment to move into. He likes his apartment because it has a much nicer kitchen (which I admit is true). But while my kitchen is blah, my apartment is much bigger. As I was arguing to move into my apartment, my fusebox was shooting sparks in the background!

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The nice thing about arguing is that then you can make up.

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Here’s a tour of Alexander’s apartment so you can get an idea of what it’s like.

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Kitchen, dining, living area. Super tiny.

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View from the kitchen looking into the living room.

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His view of the back of a sign (mine is on a lower floor but is a nicer view).

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Tiny bedroom.

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Other side of bedroom. The bathroom is so cramped I couldn’t get any good shots.

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Moving day! Alexander saw the logic and moved into my place. We also argued about whose furniture to keep (he hates mine because it’s so colorful, and I hate his because it’s not). His is so neutral (boring) that it goes with anything, so we just kept them both.

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We kept his bed and got rid of mine, though. He won that argument. And we added his artwork to the walls, which my place desperately needed. (Or should I say “our place?”)

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I had to make space for his clothes. He gets on little corner, LOL.

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So here’s what the living room looks like. We just crammed everything into this space, LOL. We figure that we’ll eventually move into a bigger apartment and then we’ll already have furniture for a bigger space? I’m thinking about getting rid of that stupid bookshelf, though. I used to love it, but now it’s just too much. I dunno.

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And then his credenza went into the hallway.

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Okay, so it has been awhile since I updated (sorry), but I just wanted to let you all know that Alexander proposed at the office Christmas party!!

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He is truly the best boyfriend and partner anyone could ever ask for, and he has made me the happiest woman in the world! Merry Christmas, everyone.

Next: Newlywed Life

 

1.1E Prom & Graduation

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Prom was so much fun!!!

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Me busting a move on the dance floor.

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Tony getting handsy with Janine. Euuwwe. Not in front of me, please.

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Freddie Norman came to prom alone and in his sweat pants. I’m not sure what’s going on with that kid.

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A night we’ll always remember.

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I thought graduation day would never get here, and then all of a sudden, it was here! I kept wanting school to be over, but then when it was, I was sad. I looked back at all of my friends standing there and realized it would never be like this again.

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My bestie, Janine, and I reliving old high school memories while waiting for the graduation ceremony to start.

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While we were sitting there waiting for the ceremony to begin, my brother Tony and I exchanged looks – this is really happening! We’re both happy and a little sad and nostalgic before we’re even completely out of high school! Okay, mostly happy, though. I mean, no more tests–ever!!

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Graduation’s over. Booyah! I’m outta here.

Next:  Move to the Big City

 

1.1D Nick and Izumi’s Wedding

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My brother Nick is engaged to the Izumi Fujita who works at the city library. Before they started going out, he would go to the library and borrow books all the time just to have an excuse to talk to her. He checked out so many books in those few weeks, haha.

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The wedding is today! My brother Tony and I are in the ceremony.

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The beautiful bride. Wow, her dress looks amazing!

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Mr. and Mrs. Davenport!

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The wedding and reception were held at the garden of the local museum, known as The Muses. So pretty! Notice in the background how many drinks Nick is holding. Hopefully one is for his bride and they’re not both for him!

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I love this picture. She looks so happy!

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A really good picture of me.

Next:  Prom and Graduation